“There are some stories that require as much courage to write as they do art. Peter Ho Davies’s achingly honest, searingly comic portrait of fatherhood is just such a story. A Lie Someone Told You About Yourself
enacts to profound effect the dark shames, fears, and absurdities that are an inescapable part of family life. The world needs more stories like this one, more of this kind of courage, more of this kind of love.”
—Sigrid Nunez, National Book Award-winning author of The Friend
“A Lie Someone Told You About Yourself is a novel about love—not fake love that blots out all else, but real-life love that, like a rose window, allows all other emotions to pass through it: guilt, shame, fury, duty, sorrow. Peter Ho Davies has written a brilliant book about modern marriage and parenthood, about choice and its fallout, that is hilarious and devastating, both true-to-life and a comforting fractured parable for our time.”
—Elizabeth McCracken, bestselling author of Bowlaway
"I never miss a new book by Peter Ho Davies and A Lie Someone Told You About is his best yet. A taut, raw, clever work of autofiction with a real beating heart, this is the audacious tragicomic novel about fatherhood and long-term love we’ve been missing."
—Claire Vaye Watkins, author of Battleborn and Gold Fame Citrus
"Peter Ho Davies has long written brilliantly about accidents of culpability and their winding trails. In A Lie Someone Told You About Yourself he has given us a stunning novel of family life, scrupulous and astute, full of home-truths in every sense. Another triumph by an author whose books I love."
—Joan Silber, National Book Critics Circle Award-winning author of Improvement
"Prose as spare as it is emotionally resonant...A tribute to Davies' skill and sensitivity...A radiant conclusion affirms the daunting cost and overwhelming rewards of raising a child. Perfectly observed and tremendously moving: This will strike a resonant chord with parents everywhere.
—Kirkus, starred review
“A raw, intimate look at a couple’s journey into parenthood . . . a resonant treatise on identity, family, grieving, writing, and ‘the taking and telling of other people’s stories.’”
—Booklist, starred review
"Davies’s meditation on the complexities of parenthood is at once celebration and absolution, finding truth in human contradictions."